CA Dreaming Questionnaire

  • By CPPA Website
  • 06 Dec, 2017
What's your dream, everyone has a dream! It is California dreaming time. Too many in CA though have gone from dreaming about a wonderful family life to experience abuse within their family and then abuse again when they try to protect their own children from the abusive parent. A majority of the time when this abuse is reported during a separation/divorce, the protective parent loses custody to the abuser. Now protective parents/the safe parents dream of being reunited wi th their own child/children, at time to visit them without a supervisor, for the rules of the Court to be followed, ethical professionals, the truth to be know, their child/children to be safe, for their children to just be able to cope long enough until they turn 18 and the dream that they will live to 18. And these are the fortunate ones who can still dream that their child will live through this for their child is still alive. This is not a better off for your children's generation when there is abuse. Newsrooms up and down the state want to know about your dreams and how could this nightmare be happening here is CA. Please take the time to respond, remember this is the team that wants to know the reality of what is happening and help expose the truth; be respectful and remember they probably are not expecting to hear about this issue. Educate, help make them aware of the family court crisis and together we will see a day when our dreams can become a reality, a day when children can tell they are being abused, they are believed and protected.

Click h ere for details and to enter your dream/nightmare .
By CPPA Website 16 Jan, 2018
Dillan Weileder was 10 years old when she first told about the sexual abuse she endured.  It took 10 months to conviction, something rarely seen in case where the rapist is a parent to the child; her case involved an "uncle" figure.  Dillan is speaking out about the abuse, sharing her story and being added to the more than 50 sexual abuse survivors photographed Mollie Walton Corbett's Outlier exhibit.  "I want to talk about what happened to me, so that if it happens to someone else they will know to tell their parents and the police," Dillan said. "I want to tell others, 'Don't be afraid. It's not your fault.'"

Read the f ull article here .
By CPPA Website 16 Jan, 2018
Victims today were able to share with the world what Larry Nassar did to them.  Abusers lie. They tell their victims nobody will believe them, and most of the time they are right.  Today the truth is known.

We have learned only 4 to 6% of allegations are false but more than 90% of allegations are dismissed. The legal process is allowing abuse to continue. It is time we protect children.

Abusers make their own lives what they are when they abuse others. If they were a victim of abuse, they know better as an adult not to harm anyone. While this victim is strong and CPPA is grateful for her strength and all who speak up about their abuse, we know Nassar destroyed his life all on his own and many others for the first child victim was not believed.

It is time to believe a child. It is time to end child abuse.

Watch the statements here via CNN .

By CPPA Website 08 Jan, 2018
The Golden Globe Awards on January 7, 2018 was Hollywood's commitment to ensure the #MeToo movement progresses.  They came wearing black in solidarity for all abused victims in the workplace from Hollywood to migrant workers.  They wore the Time's Up pin to build up women and support them financially through the court system as they walk through their truth of being abused.  They brought activists as their guests to shine a light on all the work that is being done by non Hollywood people, and they spoke of the truth, the cause, gratitude for the press, restorative justice and the power of hope.

We will not stop at the workplace and school though. The home is the last place people want to look and the first place that needs to be safe. The movement is moving home!

Watch Oprah's speech here , then read it here .
Watch Laura Dern's full speech and a compilation of other speeches here .
Watch Francis McDormand's speech here .
Read and see the activists present at the Globes here .

#SafeHomeSafeChildSafeWorld #BelieveaChild #TimesUp #MeToo 
By CPPA Website 04 Jan, 2018
When a mother goes to the custody exchange location, she finds her ex-husband dead in the car with both her daughters murdered on New Year's Eve.  The West Sacramento Police said this was a murder-suicide by their father, Hamdy Rouin, 46.  The two daughters, Sara, 9, and Sophie, 12, were to be back with their mother, Amy Hunter, Sunday night, prior to the hearing in Yolo County for Rouin's violations of protective orders.  Regardless of the abuse reported by Hunter of Rouin, the father was given visits with their girls.  “We see perpetrators of domestic violence trying to continue to control the victim even after the divorce is final,” Beth Hassett of the WEAVE organization stated. “The ultimate move is to kill themselves or the children.”

Read the full S acramento Bee article here .
By CPPA Website 02 Jan, 2018
Time's Up is a new legal defense fund and effort to help women who have been sexually harassed in the workplace.  Started by top Hollywood women, this anti-harassment effort raises awareness and will help victims of abuse get the right help they need.  As with abuse in the home or anywhere, telling is a first step.  Reporting and having the support to prosecute is needed.  The time is up to end abuse in the workplace and in our homes.  

Read the full article here .
By CPPA Website 02 Jan, 2018
Sheryl Sandberg posted this new hashtag, #HopefulFor, in December.   Here is her Facebook post:
Starting today, we're asking people to share what they're hopeful for next year. I'm #HopefulFor  a world where we elevate all women's voices and help get more women – especially those from groups that have been traditionally marginalized – into positions of power. Our time is now.  At CPPA, we are #HopefulFor child safety at home and the ability to report abuse by a spouse and still retain custody to keep your child safe.
By CPPA Website 02 Jan, 2018
Wishing everyone peace, joy and children safe at home in 2018. 
Safe Home. Safe Child. Safe World.
By CPPA Website 20 Dec, 2017
Children are being placed in the hands of abusers.  Family court litigants who have made complaints of wrongdoings by judges found their legitimate complaints being dismissed.  This prompted the request for an audit in 2016, a procedure the Commission on Judicial Performance (CJP) has never been subjected to in all of their 57 years.  The CA State Legislature approved the audit in August 2016 only to have the CJP sue the Auditor in October 2016 stating their records were confidential.  Now a judge has ruled that complaints against judges are not allowed to be audited. 

Will the CA State Auditor appeal this decision by San Francisco Superior Court Judge Suzanne Bolanos?  Is it time to defund the CJP?  All with judicial complaints and rejection letters may send their complaints and the CJP reply directly to the CA Auditor.  Elaine Howle, CA State Auditor, 21 Capitol Mall, Sacramento, CA 95814.

See The Recorder article here .  To be noted, it is unclear if judges did push for the audit as stated in this article.  Judges at the CA Legislature hearing asked for no audit to be ordered, claiming it was only disgruntled litigants making complaints against judges.
By CPPA Website 20 Dec, 2017
The Cardinal at the center of the Boston Clerical sexual abuse scandal has died.  Cardinal Law moved priests known to rape and molest children to other parishes instead of ensuring children were safe.  The Catholic Church has given the world an example of abusers continue to abuse.  Hoping someone will change does not work.  If you have yet to see the film "Spotlight," please watch it over this holiday season.  It takes a village to cover up sexual abuse and a village to prevent it.  All must work together to change the family court system that allows abusers to have full or partial custody of their victims. 

To understand this church crisis, see the Boston Globe articles here  and their coverage of Law's death from being an enabler to how Mitchell Garabedian sees this for the victims .
By CPPA Website 12 Dec, 2017
CA's Chief Justice Tani Cantil-Sakauye is quoted as saying the resignation of 6th Court of Appeals Judge Conrad Rushing was a surprise to her.  Per the SF Chronicle online SFGATE article, Chief Justice Cantil-Sakauye confirmed the Judicial Council (JCC) had ordered the report against Judge Rushing after they had received complaints from the court which he served for 15 years.  The allegations will not be made public for the Commission on Judicial Performance (CJP) had not taken action against him prior to Rushing resigning. 

It is still unclear why the JCC would order a report on Judge Rushing when it is the CJP's responsibility to investigate complaints. Per the law firm hired to write the report for the JCC, Ellis Buehler Makus , this is their mission: 

At Ellis Buehler Makus,  partner with employers and managers to navigate California’s complex employment law arena. Our mission is to help your organization reduce employment law risk — through legal and strategic advice, neutral investigations, and practical training — so that you can focus on achieving your business objectives.

See full article here .
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